PATIENT LOYALTY & THANKSGIVING
For more than 17 years I was a patient of the same dentist. I stayed with his
practice for a number of reasons. I was happy with his work. He was ethical and responsive to my concerns. His approach to treatment was conservative and my oral healthcare improved in his care. His fees were reasonable and his location was convenient for me. Yet I felt I was “just another patient” in his practice until one day when he helped me realize that he felt valued me. My view of him changed remarkably on that day. 
He entered the treatment room, chart in hand, turned to face me and said, “I’ve been looking at your records over all the years since you’ve been coming here … did you know it’s been 17 years?” He put his hand on my shoulder in a kindly way and said, “I almost feel like we’ve grown up together because you’ve been with me since the early years of my practice. I really appreciate your being such a loyal patient and I want to say ‘thank you’ for giving me the privilege of treating you.”
You could have knocked me over with a feather. Though I think it was a bit difficult for him to say this, I believe he was sincere and it was heartfelt. My loyalty to him was strengthened when I realized that he valued me as a patient. His words and his authentic manner in those brief moments helped me recognize the depth of his character.
THE OPPORTUNITY Practices often focus on what it takes to get patients in the front door of the office. Today, it’s vital to key an eye on the back door. What is going on with your patients of record, those people who have been with you for a while and have been loyal to you? Patients need to know that you are “connected” to them and that you value them. This is an ideal time to reflect on the loyalty of your patients and to verbalize it to them in a meaningful way.
COMMON COURTESY & THANKSGIVING
A friend and I were discussing the deterioration of courtesy today. With thanksgiving and holiday season just around the corner the topic of giving thanks was very pertinent. She said, “If my mother didn’t get a thank you note after giving a present, that person’s name was wiped off the gift list. “ Her mother applied the same concept to children, “If Susie doesn’t have time to write me a note of thanks, then I guess that indicates that she doesn’t have time to play with that game I gave her … so why bother her with more in the future!”
My friend described how her mother taught her the importance of writing notes. “I’d open my presents and then my mother would say to me, “I’ll hold on to these presents while you write your thank you notes. When you write the note to Aunt Bessie, give it to me and I’ll trade it for the present she gave you!” I was fascinated. My friend got a pretty serious dose of giving thanks to others.
THE OPPORTUNITY!\ How special it is when someone really DOES send a note of thanks. The more we lean on electronic communication for quick and easy messages, the more meaningful that handwritten note
becomes. If you really want to WOW your patients or clients, take a few moments to handwrite a personal thank you note or note of appreciation!